THE MONSTER INSIDE | (Akansha Sureka)
( This Article Titled “The Monster Inside” is written by AKANSHA SUREKA )
Everything you see in this world is a reflection of your own worth when you feel oneness with people then you see good things in them, you don’t feel insecure. In this digital age world, we are all in a rat-cat race. We always care about the success of others more than our own success, whether it is professional life or personal. We often feel jealous instead of being happy seeing other people’s progress. Many times, we feel this feeling by seeing our loved ones also growing. What is the reason behind this !? Let’s know this :
Jealously appears in different ways when you see siblings, partners or colleagues is looking better than you, smarter more popular, performing better in their career, so negative feelings would arise in you. It arises in people who have low self-esteem and when there is a negative attitude towards loyalty and the feeling of being different from everyone else. This is what happens when we don’t have self-sufficiency or we have insecurities inside. You start hating that person, try to humiliate them, speak badly about them, but the truth is you can never harm the other person or destroy them. However, you just push yourself down. One thing is clear, Jealously will never harm another person but look at the storm it blows in you. You get agitated, lose your sleep, get obsessed with another person, and find many ways to harm them. The result is that your talents, ability, and desires remain hidden. All your energy is wasted just thinking of dragging that person down and you yourself fail. So Jealousy, Competition, and Bitterness make your life hell. How can you find happiness on the outside when you are not happy on the inside?
Jealousy is a feeling, is an emotion, its root cause is wished or desire. A modification of desire is Jealousy.
The mind does not have the capacity to think or tolerate injustice. Everything you see in this world is a restriction of your mind. When you feel the perfect fit in people, you see good things in them. The important thing is that you really admire that person’s qualities and want to achieve. For that, you have to understand that he has done all this with hard work and effort. And you can have that too. If you work so hard you can reach their level or even surpass them. So change your attitude and be positive.
As said by William Shakespeare:
“O, beware, my lord, of jealousy;
It is the green-eyed monster, which doth mock
The meat it feeds on.”